For a long time I have been angry. Angry at myself, angry at other people, angry at the world. I’d look for the blame in everyone else but myself. If I could make it someone else’s fault, I would. I felt like I was against the world, everyone was out to get me and I was always the victim. It makes me sad to look back two months ago and see that that was the person I had become. At what point did I decide that it was ok to blame everyone else and completely ignore the fact that something was wrong. You should of seen me picks fight with someone, I feel ashamed of myself for how I would treat people before I understood my illness. I’m not a horrible person, I think I’m a very kind and caring person but if you’d of met me a few months ago you’d think I was a moody cow who always moaned.
I no longer feel angry at both people and myself, if something annoys me rather than go off on one I take myself away from the situation completely so that I can reset. I have my calm place now that I can take myself, the beach in Byron Bay at sunset. I can close my eyes and take myself back there and feel ok.
It’s less than two weeks until I head back to the UK. The trip I have had planned for so many years is nearly over and the question what am I got to do when I come back is very present. I don’t know what I want to do with my life and it’s starting to panic me. Everyone I’ve spoken to admires the fact that I’ve taken this trip but what do I do now that it’s nearly over?
I’ve had so many people say to me ‘when I was your age I didn’t know what I wanted to do’ that might be the case but that’s not helpful! I wonder if I will have this same conversation with my children when they are my age and I wonder if my parents thought the same when they were going through this. My sister is going through her auditions for where she will be going next year, my brother is up in Chester being an estate agent and now I’m jobless and broke.
I have got rid of the anger but I’m struggling to rewire my thinking pattern. I don’t feel lost I just don’t know what to do!! I’ve talked with my parents about what are my strengths, what are my weaknesses, what type of people I’d like to work with ect and I’m left baffled. Some days I have revelations and think I’m going to do this or that but I’m like a bee. There are so many things I want to try, I change my mind so often because scared to commit to anything, worrying I’ll wake up in 30 years time doing the same thing and not remembering how I got there.
I know there’s a lot of people my age who will be going through the same thing as me. I need help, I need advice from everyone has been here, done that and got the t shirt.
I’d appreciate any help as to where I start when I get back home!
H x